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Next on my Netflix queue was Terms of Endearment, which won the Oscar for Best Picture and for which James L. Brooks won the Best Director Oscar; Jack Nicholson won and John Lithgow was nominated for the Best Supporting Actor Oscar; Debra Winger was nominated for and Shirley MacLaine won the Best Actress Oscar; Polly Platt, Harold Michelson, Tom Pedigo, and Anthony Mondello were nominated for the Best Art Direction Oscar; Donald O'Mitchell, Rick Kline, Kevin O'Connell, and Jim Alexander were nominated for Best Sound; James L. Brooks won the Best Adapted Screenplay Oscar; Richard Marks was nominated for the Best Film Editing Oscar; and Michael Gore was nominated for the Best Original Score Oscar; (film year, 1983; awarding year, 1984). The other nominees in these categories were:
Best Picture
The Big Chill
The Dresser
The Right Stuff
Tender Mercies
Best Director
The Dresser - Peter Yates
Fanny and Alexander - Ingmar Bergman
Silkwood - Mike Nichols
Tender Mercies - Bruce Beresford
Best Supporting Actor
To Be or Not to Be - Charles Durning
The Right Stuff - Sam Shepard
Cross Creek - Rip Torn
Best Art Direction
Fanny and Alexander (Winner)
Return of the Jedi
The Right Stuff
Yentl
Best Actress
Testament - Jane Alexander
Silkwood - Meryl Streep
Educating Rita - Julie Walters
Best Adapted Screenplay
Betrayal
The Dresser
Educating Rita
Reuben, Reuben
Best Film Editing
The Right Stuff (Winner)
Blue Thunder
Flashdance
Silkwood
Best Original Score
The Right Stuff (Winner)
Cross Creek
Return of the Jedi
Under Fire
Best Sound
The Right Stuff (Winner)
Never Cry Wolf
Return of the Jedi
WarGames
This film also represents the ninth of nine Oscar-nominated dramas topping my Netflix queue, just in case you were keeping track. This film further represents the first of two films featuring Shirley MacLaine that top the queue as well.
Terms of Endearment is one of those films that seem like they have always been around (I was six the year the film was released) but, yet, have never piqued my interest, not even a smidge (at least not until I started my stream of consciousness Netflix queuing). This movie always struck me as potentially melodramatic and sappy; after all, it features Shirley MacLaine, and there are a bevy of her films that, even if comedic in nature, seem to take on a quality of melodrama and, yes, sap. Also, the film carries the label "tearjerker" as its genre moniker on Netflix, and while I admit that I can be a crier when watching films, I don't generally choose to put myself through such nonsense (unless it's one of my favorite films that just happen to do that to me every time I see it). Nevertheless, I knew Terms of Endearment won a truckload of Oscars, as evidenced above, including most of the major five/seven, so, when queuing, I think I decided that I wanted to see what all the fuss was about. And this film is definitely all about fuss.
MacLaine plays Aurora, an overbearing and principled mother of her only child, Emma (Winger), who spends most of Emma's life overprotecting her, alienating her friends, and navigating a strained relationship between them. This relationship is first tested when Emma plans to marry Flap (Jeff Daniels), a man with aspirations toward teaching in higher education, such that Aurora decides to not even go to her own daughter's wedding. She further reacts strongly to the thought of being called grandmother and insists that her growing brood of grandchildren call her Mrs. Greenway, though she shows love for her grandkids that she can't seem to extend to Flap or some of the other people in Emma's life. For unexplained reasons, Flap engages in a string of affairs with students, which prompts the increasingly paranoid Emma to find solace in the arms of an unhappily married banker (Lithgow). Meanwhile, Aurora is wooed by her boorish next door neighbor, Garrett Breedlove (Nicholson, in a scene-stealing performance). The film pursues these developments and their awkward resolutions until Emma contracts an unidentified and acute form of cancer, leading each character to reevaluate their relationships, with themselves individually and with each other.
Terms of Endearment is a strange, quirky little film that can't seem to decide what it wants to be. On the one hand, it explores the unconventional relationship between an unusual mother and her willful daughter. On the other hand, it's a slice-of-life exploration of the trials and tribulations of romance at different stages in a woman's life. On still another hand, it plays like an after-school special dissecting the effects of serious illness on a family unit. And while a film can certain be multi-layered and be many things to many people, this film seems to handle these different aspects a bit too awkwardly to make it thoroughly entertaining.
The dialog in this film, thanks to James L. Brooks' adaptation of a novel on which the film is based, is snappy and natural and rendered even more so by the strong performances from the leading actors. There is no performance that suffers in this piece: MacLaine is a hoot; Winger is nuanced and sweet (and carries the whole film); Nicholson is effortlessly outrageous, breathing life into the film when it seems to stagnate into its rinse-and-repeat episodic form of storytelling; and even Daniels and Lithgow breathe all three warm and welcoming dimensions into weak and unlikable characters. In fact, if it weren't for this amazing ensemble of actors, Terms of Endearment would likely descend into the melodrama and sap aforementioned. Fortunately, it only skims the surface.
Still, the skimming of the surface is a bit of a flaw in this viewer's eyes. The Spout page's description above notes how the film flows episodically, bouncing back and forth between the pendulum-like swings of silent treatment and co-dependency these two women share with each other to the various trials each woman has with her man before it takes a late second-act shift and introduces Emma's cancer, transforming the film from quirky dramedy to all-out melodrama. The trouble with this particular flow, orchestrated by screenwriter and director Brooks, is that it feels like none of the aspects comprising this film are given full-flush (though it's hard to know if the novel does the same, as I haven't read it). If the film were most about mother and daughter and did not focus so much on their relationships with men, the resonance of her daughter's terminal cancer on MacLaine's unconventional Aurora might have been more meaningful. If the film were most about the relationships between Aurora and Garrett or Emma and Flap, this thirteenth-hour shift would have taken on a whole new resonance, if not been completely out of place. As it is, it felt somewhat out of left field in the way it was introduced and then resolved, a plot point to bring the film to a contrived, hurried, and unsatisfying conclusion. Also, its execution honestly rang with after-school special timbre. albeit with a much more skilled ensemble of actors to bring the film to fruition.
Also, some plot points were not fully explained, even if assumptions could be made. Why Flap strays from the nest is never explicitly stated, and though it can be assumed that domineering Aurora, his career ambition, and/or a feeling of being trapped with homebound mother and children might all be likely enough reasons, his character was never developed enough at the beginning to fully understand his choices in the end. It's also not understood why Emma drifts toward John Lithgow's banker, other than the fact that he's available, and she's out for revenge. While such motivations may seem natural, none of the characters, particularly the two leading women, are run-of-the-mill enough to assume that any of these decisions truly make sense. Perhaps, I'm being too analytical, but sometimes, I notice these things and wonder what happened or how the film might have looked if not for the bits left on the cutting room floor.
As such, I didn't particularly love this film, but I liked it well enough thanks to its engaging and enjoyable cast. This was Brooks' first film, and, in my opinion, he improved his writing and directing technique in later films (such as As Good As It Gets), but yet he was awarded so many Oscars for this film. Of the other Best Picture winners from 1983, I've seen Tender Mercies and The Big Chill, the latter of which I think is a better film with a more timeless message and meaning (and a far better soundtrack) than this film -in other words, it might have deserved the big prize more than this film, but that's only my opinion. As for the other categories for which this film was nominated, such as art direction and score, Terms of Endearment certainly deserved those nominations, since as the film progresses, three decades have elapsed, and emotions swirl complicatedly around these women. Still, maybe viewers who have this kind of relationship with their mother or daughter feel more of a connection to this film than I did. In any event, this film was enjoyable enough for me to give it an 7.5 on the patented ratings scale for being between minor flaws/very good and shaky/entertaining. The test, however, does not pass because it's not the kind of film I generally enjoy watching more than once even if I do love the film. To borrow from other reviews I've read, Terms of Endearment's best achievement is that it strikes a balance between comedy and tragedy that makes it ultimately likable and engaging; however, it's biggest flaw is that it abandons that balance in the end to dwell only on the sad and the tragedy, without proffering that kernel of hope that became the underlying theme of Aurora's and Emma's relationship in the film preceding the event of Emma's cancer. If you, the potential viewer, can ignore that facet of the film making, then you, no doubt, will enjoy this film more than I did.